The nuance I feel you might be overlooking is your so-called visual aid is just someone else’s hot bod (as much as it is mostly artificial) and it might signal to your partner that you don’t find her physique attractive enough, whereas the use of sex toys or physical aids as you put it would be your partner’s way of signaling that her pleasure is not exclusively centered on your penis or its size. Even in phallic shaped toys designed for penetration, there’s always something else reputable manufacturers include, be it vibration, texture, shape, simultaneous clitoral stimulation, suction, etc. And none of these are meant to substitute your own physique and the intimacy you bring to the table (or the bed, or the couch, or the shower hehe).

I think the poster below makes a good point that toys designed for men such as fleshlights would be a more apt comparison. And the reverse for the example you provide would be something akin to needing the visual aid of Johnny Sins to get off. If we were to talk about getting off during your little lovemaking session by the chemistry and the fantasy on screen in porn - and both parties were ok with and equally excited by it -, then I’d also find no issue with that (albeit, I do think there are healthier ways to go about).

When it comes to sex, it all eventually comes down to communication and respect. And if your boundaries to feeling comfortable draw a line against using sex toys, then that’s you and your partner needs to respect your feelings as well. I just feel like it’s a shame if people are missing out, because their own insecurities equate a dildo or a vibrator (or whatever) to a substitute for your penis, your body, and your active role during sexy times, because they definitely are not.

There’s always something for everyone and not everyone is into everything. As long as there’s consent, respect for needs and boundaries, and communication, no one ever needs to feel innadequate in the bedroom.

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When Biden was President, MAGAts were scrutinizing everything Federal in their country looking for a Deep State conspiracy like someone dumbsplained the X-Files to them, meanwhile the shallow cunts they put in office are just disappearing people and culling the regime’s undesirables, megacorporations are flaunting their influence out in the open, dissenting voices are being silenced publicly, and their Supreme Cheeto is blatantly working for Russian interests, when he’s not moonlighting in an international web of paedophilia. But would you look at that?

No backlash from the MAGA base, no indignant outcries, no conspiracy theories, the only kool aid being drunk is the one lactating from King Orangutang’s teat and his merry entourage of gaslighting sycophants.

Their Deep State has finally surfaced, but all their stockpiles of guns are apparently pulling a Chuck Schumer and waiting for the right time, which somehow isn’t quite here, yet. So maybe this was never about freedom, transparency, accountability, it was about being finally enabled by the status quo to exercise their bigotry freely, transparently and without being made accountable for it.

AFAIK, yes, and they’re around the same ball park, I think cheaper on the individual plan, but a dollar more than Tidal on the Family Plan, IIRC. Nothing like trying them out.

Right now, it’s Qobuz that pays the most, and they also sport lossless audio formats as well. Tidal’s still a good pick, as far as music streamers go, though.

I’m not familliar with other software from Canada, but there are a lot of european alternatives to OneDrive and afaik all of them host outside the US.

Proton Drive, Infomaniak’s kDrive, pCloud are all Swiss, and Filen and Nextcloud are German, with the latter being self-hostable. I have personally tried both Filen and pCloud and found them easy to use.

Non-targeted ads and funding from investors, as far as I can tell.

It’s French and free.

Can confirm: am over 35 and if I stay up later than that I start to get cranky and sour about kids these days with their insistence on trying, instead of doing or doing not. Ugh!