I think this post made more people turn that setting off on their phones than the other way around xD
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tomi000@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)01·10 months agoNo. If you want to correct someone, please be sure to know your definitions.
Cognitive dissonance is a process inside the observers mind. In this example it goes something like this: ‘I believe all cops are bastards’ vs. ‘I met a cop and he is not a bastard’ -> something doesnt match, thats the dissonance.
My sarcastic comment hinted at the person OP met not being a cop, but the flipside of a human that is a cop in their job and a completely different person in their freetime (like schizophrenics). This makes the second statement ‘I met a cop and he is not a bastard’ untrue and resolves the dissonance.
tomi000@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)01·10 months agoWhen you realize that the cop on the job and the person in their free time are 2 separate, almost independent, personalities, the cognitive dissonance goes away.
How are people playing this down so much? How would getting piss drunk once a week not be heavy drinking? Ive been drinking that much in uni, not as an adult. Maybe once every few months but not regularly.