I can relate to a few things here (e.g. definitely share the lack of coordination), of course others very much not - it drives my curiosity through the roof: Any stories on what happens when you are with the FFL and have no coordination from start to end? I feel like there have to be some very good ones :)

I am not the creator, funnily that is/was one of the Lemmy creators: Nutomic :)
I am a syncthing co-maintainer that kept the android app on life support since a while.