It’s my personal opinion that having sex with a condom is worse than not having sex, and I’m not getting a vasectomy until I’m confident I never want kids. Their reversibility is dubious at best and it’s not worth the risk if you aren’t 100% sure. I’m pretty sure I’ll never have kids, but I’m not even confident enough about how I’ll feel a decade from now to get a tattoo… so making such a big choice is out of the question.

I’m happy to just not have sex with women who aren’t on birth control. If you feel this is wrong, the solution is simple. We can just not have sex together. Problem solved.

I’ll never hold the door unless it’s a public building, they’re close enough that I wouldn’t need to hold it for long, and they aren’t a woman within 10 years of my age. My anxiety can’t risk me being seen as a creep so I don’t want someone to think I’m holding the door for them cause I’m attracted to them or anything like that.