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Cake day: September 24th, 2023

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  • Hmm well I can’t speak for Europe, but plenty of chill people to go hiking with in the US, plus it might not be the most challenging stuff maybe but I’ve hiked out of the grand canyon with my friends 70 yo grandma so if you want the social aspect you can still do challenging things just maybe go a little slower. Also again don’t know about Europe but there are like five weekly board game meetups in my decent sized city.


  • Well what defines going out? There are plenty of board game meet ups, even if you don’t especially like board games I would posit that it’s not an objectively negative experience; so if you must hold you nose and go anyway, do so.

    Secondly, although this is coming from my experience in America, so your millage may vary, there’s tons of outdoor activities and groups: go for a hike, go backpacking.

    You don’t need special equipment, you don’t need to buy anything. Just a water bottle, backpack, tent/tarp, and some non perishable foods and you’re good to go.

    It’s true that the convenient third places of yesterday have seemingly vanished; but people are still out there.


  • Honestly so happy I’m married, I’m sorry for all of y’all. Dystopian times.

    But hey to add my two cents: I think that fear is marketable, so women are over fed on paranoia.

    At the same time, porn and propaganda have put bad expectations in some percentile of dumb men.

    Both sexes are generally out of social practice, and societal trust is at an all time low. Most people are nice, but most people are also awkward.

    So get out there and meet some people, don’t even do so romantically, just go learn how to interact with people, form some friendships.



  • True true yeah don’t expect to see everything. I guess narrowing my interests:

    • technical museums
    • history
    • food
    • above all socializing, I have a hope that unlike the suburban life in my state there are still dens of humanity where people talk to each other and have spirited debates in the public square so perhaps bars? But not the loud sports kind.

    And thanks! Was considering listing interests but was worried about missing out on things I didn’t yet know I had an interest in.