

respect, kindness and have principles that I apply uniformly
Not actions that he applies uniformly. Obviously you meet people with different actions. But you can remain constant in principles.
Its possible to respect both your mother and your partner, yet only have sex with one of them. Weirdo.
But at least he’s self aware! That places him in an intellectual capacity at least somewhere between a giant panda and a house mouse. Not bad for a troll.