My biggest problems here are the phrases “no objections” and “evolve”.
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“No objections” is unhealthily controlling. You absolutely can object, and it’s gross that he seems to think you can’t.
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“Evolve” makes it sound like people who don’t go on dates are somehow not as human as the rest of society, and are not doing what they’re “supposed” to be doing. I don’t like that either. It strikes me as being in the same vein as how you’re “supposed” to be heterosexual, and get married, and have children. Because that’s what “normal” humans do.
If those two phrases weren’t in the response, I’d find the situation weird, but not overall objectionable.
It’s your dad’s attitude toward you that feels wrong, not the date itself.
You take the high temperature (or average or low; whatever you’re going for), for every day of one year for a specific area/city, and then each row/stripe is one day.
Before you start you assign each temperature range a color. The hotter days tend to be in the reds, oranges, and yellows, the colder days in the blues and purples.
There’s a lot of variation. You can make the range 10 degrees for a lot of the same color, or change every 3 degrees for a lot of different color changes. You can do stripes or squares. You can do the average temp of the city you were born in during your birth year (with a unique color for your actual birthday). Or the same idea for a kid’s or friend’s birthday year. You can do the current year, in the city you’re in, for a snapshot in time. (This also means it can’t be finished until the year is over, lol.)