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Cake day: July 11th, 2023

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  • That makes sense. Dune itself had derivative elements, and since it was written many other works have lifted ideas from Dune.

    Similar to music from the 60s and other eras.

    I know I have my favorite versions of different works, and most often it’s difficult to keep in mind that no art is definitely right or wrong. It’s very hard to create something truly original.



  • I think it’s reasonable to ask, but manage your expectations.

    I don’t know if you have your own children, but they’re a lifelong commitment. When they need you as a parent you have to be there. Your husband knows his son’s needs and it sounds like he’s doing a great job of helping him heal. Conversely, keeping the son away could lead to feelings of hopelessness…‘if I can’t rely on dad, I have nobody’.

    This may be the difference between a short term sharing of your husband’s time (though not as short as you’d like) and an ongoing situation that creeps up when you’d hoped it was long since done. If that’s too much for you, maybe you’re not right together.