• Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    The last period has little to do with whether someone is pregnant. Why not just ask if someone is pregnant? Would they not give me those drugs if I was unconscious in case it harms a surprise baby? Furthermore, if I’m in rough enough shape to need an ambulance I should hope saving my life comes first, before a pregnancy I might not be aware of, and might not even want.

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      5 days ago

      They’re not going ask if someone is actively dying obviously, but if they’re in a position where they can ask those questions and the patient is able to answer then they could be seen as liable for a miscarriage if they don’t ask and they give something harmful.

      It’s about protecting themselves. For example, I was a man working in childcare and I always had to be careful with my interactions with children and to minimise the times I was ever alone with a child as much as possible, because people can and will assume the worst about men in a position of power over children. So I can understand people doing everything in their power to protect themselves, even if they have to ask questions other people may be annoyed by.

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        5 days ago

        It still doesn’t change the fact that the last period date has very little to do with whether a woman is pregnant.

        Yes, I understand there is a reason for it borne of a clusterfuck of policy, lack of reproductive education and little respect for women’s autonomy over their own bodies. That’s what the meme is making fun of in the first place.

        I live in a country with less restrictive policies on women and get by just fine without being asked this question.