Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Memes@sopuli.xyz · 28 days agoExcuse the fuck me?lemmy.dbzer0.comimagemessage-square93linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1imageExcuse the fuck me?lemmy.dbzer0.comStamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Memes@sopuli.xyz · 28 days agomessage-square93linkfedilink
minus-squareTeamAssimilation@infosec.publinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-228 days agoI don’t think it’s instinct, but a calculated selfish decision. Will I profit from spending energy, time, and money in this person? If they die, it’s a net loss, so they bail. Instinct only tell us to go away in case the disease is contagious.
minus-squarenotsure@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0·28 days ago…that is the definition of instinct, not only survival but profit…
minus-squarekrashmo@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·28 days agoThis sort of transactional view of romantic relationships is exactly how incels are born
I don’t think it’s instinct, but a calculated selfish decision. Will I profit from spending energy, time, and money in this person? If they die, it’s a net loss, so they bail.
Instinct only tell us to go away in case the disease is contagious.
…that is the definition of instinct, not only survival but profit…
This sort of transactional view of romantic relationships is exactly how incels are born