I’m not talking about straight porn, but erotic movie parts, like basic instinct: in the unrated cut we actually get to see Michael Douglas’ penis as he ‘penetrates’ Jeanne Tripplehorn.

The whole scene seems very realistic, including the kissing and the domination.

How can you control yourselves?

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    Easy answer next time you are intimate with your partner choreograph the whole session and have your boss watch and see if you get aroused.

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    What looks realistic on screen is carefully pieced together from countless shots. An erotic moment feels much less hot if it’s the 29th time you’ve performed the exact same moment, and there’s a dozen guys standing around holding microphone booms and complaining about the lighting not being right, and some dude keeps sending for more fake sweat to reapply to your forehead.

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      Now I’m just imagining Stanley Kubrick getting his start in porn.

      “Cut!!! The lighting is wrong. Who is handling the lighting??? It’s all wrong! It doesn’t invite me into the scene! Look at this lighting! Would YOU become entranced into a sexual encounter??? We’re making art here people! We’re making cinema! We’re making magic! Remember, Anal Sluts 9 will be the pornographic masterpiece that will be heralded among future generations! That’s what’s at stake here. That’s why we’ve all gathered here today. So if I say the lighting is off, then I EXPECT SOMEONE TO FIX THE GOD DAMN LIGHTING!!! LETS GET IT RIGHT PEOPLE!!! Aaaaand go again. Take 537…ACTION!”

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    1. who says they don’t?
    2. its probably not quite as erotic when there is an entire crew pointing lights, cameras and microphones at you, and a director giving you instructions
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    “Please don’t be offended if I get an erection during this scene.”

    “Also, please don’t be offended if I don’t.”

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      Viagra probably. For men at least. For women it’s probably more about ignoring the presence of the camera.

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    More passion !

    Lightning’s crap, we’re redoing it for the 8th time

    Oh wait guys stop, mic’s unplugged

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    Most people have basic impulse control. Your last question makes me slightly concerned that maybe you don’t.